Today, my daddy would have been 98 years old.
That number feels both impossibly large and strangely small, because no matter how many years pass, he still feels close. Not as a memory fading with time, but as a presence—steady, familiar, woven into who I am.
I still catch myself wanting to call him. Wanting to hear his voice. Wanting to tell him something ordinary, something small, because those were often the moments that mattered most. He was never just there for the big things—he was there for everything.
My daddy had a way of making the world feel safer just by being in it. His love didn’t need grand gestures or loud declarations. It lived in consistency. In showing up. In quiet strength. In knowing that if I needed him—really needed him—he would be there without hesitation.
I was loved by him in a way that leaves a permanent imprint on the heart.
He taught me things without always using words. He showed me what loyalty looks like. What responsibility looks like. What it means to stand by your family no matter what life throws at you. He taught me resilience simply by living it. And kindness by practicing it, even when it wasn’t easy.
Some people are lucky enough to say they loved their father. I am lucky enough to say I was loved—deeply, unquestionably, and without condition.
That kind of love doesn’t disappear when someone is gone.
It becomes part of your backbone.
Part of your voice.
Part of how you love others.
There are moments when I see him in myself—in my stubbornness, in my sense of right and wrong, in the way I care fiercely and protectively. And in those moments, it feels like he’s still teaching me. Still guiding me. Still walking beside me, even now.
Today isn’t just about a birthday that never came. It’s about honoring a life that shaped mine. A man who mattered. A man whose love continues to ripple outward through generations, through memories, through the quiet ways he still shows up in my life.
I wish I could celebrate with him today. I wish I could hug him, tell him how much he meant to me, thank him for being exactly who he was. But maybe he already knows.
Maybe love like that doesn’t need words anymore.
So today, on what would have been his 98th birthday, I don’t just remember him—I carry him. In my heart. In my choices. In the love I give to the people around me.
Happy birthday, Daddy.
You are still loved.
Still missed.
Still everything.